I am just posting this here because I trust (many) people's thoughts and opinions on different stuff besides weather.
My parents are at a point where they don't move around as they used to (mom in her 80's, dad in his 90's), and they need help for everyday chores, and activities in and around their house. ...A driver to take them to appointments...Someone to do chores...and possibly a cook. They are determined to stay in their house for as long as possible, trying to avoid elder care living facilities.
My mom has spent a few weeks talking to various people from different elder care service providers, and it has been nothing short of exhausting, hellish, and ultimately not what they are looking for. The people come in and want these long term contracts, and spend a bunch of time talking, and giving out referrals, which lead to more of the same....all of them tied into some company, etc. that really just wants deposit money, contracts, etc. In the end, nothing happens...no errands run, no driving, no cooking of food, just blah, blah, blah, and they go to bed tired and frustrated.
I know this is kind of a niche thing, but I am looking to see if any others have had similar situations with loved ones, and if you were able to find people to do this kind of work, without getting into the whole corporate thing. Almost like a Craig's List for elder help, but with more vetting of the individuals if possible. I have heard stories about people getting lucky with that college student who takes these kinds of tasks on as a part time job while studying.
Thanks.