I used to live there, and I tracked the models to death. But you guys gotta realize, you are gonna get the storm. Sleep tonight. You want to be able to stay awake all tomorrow and tomorrow night into early Weds. After that its all a moot point, for reasons I really don't need to elaborate on. Sleep tonight, then get up 10am tomorrow all rip ready for very heavy snows tomorrow night, jebwalk in it til your legs fall off and dig snow til your arms fall off.
I've gotten so obsessed with an incoming snow, I've stayed up all night tracking a storm about 21 hours away, then stayed up the next day, saw the snow start then drank coffee, then finally fell asleep, exhausted, only to wake hours later as the snow was tapering off, angry and disgruntled as fook.
You live in the Mid Atlantic. This is not like Mammoth Lakes. I treated each snow system like I had terminal Stage 4 cancer and lived to savor every last flake. You can miss a storm on Palisades, no biggie, they get 400-600 inches in one season. But not in Virginia/Maryland/Delaware.