This is not from “messaging milfs” it’s from not only talking with many older women , that are long married ,faithful ...but seriously dreading their husband retiring , most of the clientele have had successful careers and made priorities of raising children but not balanced keeping the hanky pansy up, beyond personal conversations for 18 years...mounds of literature studies even a medical acronym to describe the depression women of newly retired men face should open peoples eyes this is not fiction
you are correct , there are many happy marriages and by the way women initiate 70 percent of divorces
having things in common and nobody having their physical and emotional needs neglected (some dont have any)seem to be keys based on what I’ve read