Sunday is the real dumpster fire. Saturday is tolerable, temps and clouds suck but at least my FIL won't be grilling with an umbrella. Monday PM we hit 70-75 with some breaks of sun. Not great but not a complete disaster.
Family bbq at MIL house on Saturday at 1 PM. Pool, BBQ, outdoor games. I'd take 65 and mostly cloudy/ party sunny and run. The pool will be confined to the kids. At least they have a warm water connection for outside for the pool.
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